The big present from my folks on my ninth birthday was a bike. It was a shiny, black bike with big fenders and two metal baskets on the back. It was for a big boy… I had graduated from the smaller “kids” bike I had been riding up until then.
A bike was a big deal for a boy back in 1959. My friends and I would leave our homes early in the morning on a non-school day and not return until it was time for dinner. We always knew it was time for dinner because that’s when our stomachs couldn’t take the hunger any longer. Up to that point in the day, we would scrounge what food we could from the money we had between us. One of my friends, Sam Smith, had a Grandfather who owned a small general store and sometimes we would ride our bikes the few blocks down Forest Glen Road to get a Yoo-Hoo (my favorite chocolate drink) and a pickle from the large wooden pickle barrel that was kept in the front of the store.
There were no malls to ride to and hang out; there were no game arcades to go to. But we had a nearby creek to visit and get wet and dirty and bother the fish and toads, the railroad tracks were always fun—especially when we would put a penny down on the track and wait for the train to run over and flatten it. Not too far away was the Knights of Columbus parking lot (but that was really only good for riding your bike in circles).
Near the K of C was a large cemetary. It was always fun to invent games at the cemetary. Sometimes we would park our bikes and see who could touch the most headstones in one minute. We would run through the cemetary as soon as the timekeeper would yell “go” (whoever had a watch was the timekeeper) and count out loud for each headstone we touched. Now the inherent problem with this was that everyone running around and screaming out a number as they touched a headstone would cause some of us (maybe just me) to lose count. Also, who could really trust any of us to tell the truth about how many we had touched. Another game we played was to ride your bike from one end of the cemetary to the other using the headstones as obstacles you had to drive around. Much like going through a maze. We didn’t often get to finish this game because many times one of the caretakers would run out of a little house near a large crypt and scream at us to get out.
This birthday night in 1959, all of my family, the four kids and my mom and dad, finished dinner and then I was offered up the cake. I can’t recall exactly what kind of cake it was, but no doubt it had to be chocolate, as that was about the only kind of cake I ate as a kid. I had not yet refined my tastes to include carrot cake, one of my grown up favorites.
After I made my wish (which I certainly don’t remember what it was for—but I can tell you it was not for world peace or good health) my mom rolled a brand new bike into the dining room. Having a bike in the house was not unusual. We lived in an old four story farm house and you could make a complete circle going from the dining room to the living room to the front entrance hall to the kitchen and back to the dining room. And we kids made that circle all the time with roller skates, bikes and sometimes just running the circuit. So, although I was pleasantly surprised that I got a bike for a gift, I was not shocked to see it in the house.
I was very excited to get the shiny new bike. There was a metal basket attached to each side of the back fender. These two baskets looked like they would hold a lot of stuff. And, when you are nine years old you need lots of places to put stuff. And on a bike, well, that’s the best, because the stuff could be transported from place to place, and you could then empty the baskets and put new stuff in them—and transport that stuff where it needed to go. Stuff could be rocks from the creek bed, headstone tracings from the graveyard, Yoo-Hoo from Sam’s Grandpa’s general store, a slingshot and its ammo, all kinds of good stuff.
My ninth birthday coincided with the weekly meeting of my Cub Scout Pack and I was dressed in the blue and gold shirt and pants and familiar kerchief and kerchief slide. It was almost time for me to leave the birthday party and go to the Cub Scout meeting. But, I had taken my bike outside and figured I had time to give it a quick ride before my dad was ready to drive me to scouts.
Our house on Forest Glen Road had a gravel driveway at the back of the house which led down to Glen Ave that ran along the side of our house. Glen Ave. was a short street of about four or five houses on a little hill, with our driveway at the top of the hill. When you left my driveway and made a right you went down hill and quickly encountered a stop sign and the street turned right onto Holman Road. This part of the road, this asphalt spot at the stop sign at the intersection of Glen Ave and Holman Road was to become known to my wife and kids as “The Spot”. Forty nine years after my ninth birthday, I would visit this spot and photograph it with my cell phone, send the image to my daughters with no subject or text and they would immediately know what they were looking at.
So, that evening before my Cub Scout meeting, I spent five or ten minutes riding the short distance down Glen Avenue and back to my driveway, breaking in my new bike. At one point, my brother Paul (aged fourteen at the time) asked if he could go for a ride. I don’t know if I gladly handed the bike over to him, but I did let him try it out.
Looking back over time there is always a moment you say to yourself, “if only.” “If only” I had done this, or “if only” I had not done that. “If only” I had said yes… but to me, on this particular day of my ninth birthday, my moment was “if only” I had said no when Paul asked me to get on the bike so we could ride together down the hill.
Picture a fourteen year old boy and his nine year old brother trying to ride on a bike built for one person. I looked at Paul straddling the beautiful seat on my new bike, then my eyes viewed the nice shiny baskets on the back fender and I realized that the place for me to sit was on the handlebars.
The part of my dress for the evening that I did not mention was my shoes. For any boy in 1959 these had to be Converse All Star Sneakers. The laces, as usual, were too long for the shoes. Figuring out what to do with the extra length of laces was not something I would have cared about as a nine year old. Another problem with sneaker laces was that invariably the lace was too long on one side of the shoe and too short on the other side. I sure didn’t care enough to take the time to re-lace my shoes. And, it would have taken three or four tries to get the length exactly right anyway, and I didn’t have time for that.
If answering Paul “yes” about riding double was the 1st mistake of my ninth birthday, my second mistake was not re-lacing my shoes and making sure the laces were exactly the correct length on each shoe. Now the laces were just hanging out, doing their own thing in the wind, getting ready to get caught in the spokes of the front wheel of the bike as I sat on the handlebars on that short ride down the hill.
What I remember next is being on my back, my father looking down at me while he was pushing on my head. I heard a siren wailing and it felt like my body was being tossed from side to side.
Here is what I was later told about the events of that birthday evening.
The shiny new black bike flipped on the way down the hill because my unkempt shoe laces got caught in the front wheel spokes while I was perched on the handlebars. Apparently my brother Paul was thrown clear of the bike. Meanwhile, I landed on the street and the bike became airborne for a moment before the bright shiny new metal baskets on the back fender came to rest on my skull, opening my brains for the world to see. There were no bike helmets available in 1959.
My friend Scott ran to the front door of my house and yelled, “Bruce is at the bottom of the street all covered in blood!”
My mother then proceeded to do what many mothers of the 50’s would do at that moment—she ran into the middle of the yard and started screaming, “Oh no! He is going to die!”
My dad, being a bit more calm and a Boy Scout leader with first aid training began yelling at her, “Bunny (her nickname for Bernice) Get me some Turkish towels—lots of them—NOW! And call the operator and get an ambulance here!”
A couple of things to take away from his shout out to my mom. First, he specifically asked for Turkish towels because they are thick and highly absorbent and, as Scott had said, I was covered in blood. The high absorbency of the towels, along with my dad’s quick action no doubt saved my life.
The second thing that my mom was instructed to do was to dial the operator to get an ambulance. In 1959 there was no 9-1-1. In fact the world’s first 9-1-1 call was made in Haleyville, AL on February 16, 1968.
More of what I remember about that birthday evening. I was in the ambulance; siren blasting and I kept asking my dad if I was going to be able to go to the Cub Scout meeting that evening. With all the wisdom of a thirty-five year old father watching his third born spouting blood and brains, he lied and said, “Absolutely.”
I asked the same question to my doctor, Dr. St. Martin. I don’t remember what he said, but I do remember the soothing sound of his deep voice being the last voice I heard before surgery.
Four hours later, after two blood transfusions, 54 stitches and one attempt to jump out of a window—I awoke to find myself in a hospital bed, wearing a turban of gauze on my head and surrounded by my family—except my brother Paul. He ran away right after the accident because he thought he had killed me. My uncle found him about 20 miles away after hours of searching.
I think it was at this point in my awareness that I knew I had missed the Cub Scout meeting.